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Disclaimer: Details about this client has been anonymized to protect his identity. Reader, have you ever heard of anything as bizzare? He came to me with a challenge. His goal was to earn a million dollars a year. But he can't seem to get past $50K a month, no matter what he tried. A client would cancel at the last minute. Or someone would ask for a discount. He would get close like $49,760 but never more than $50,000. In a panic, I wondered "What kind of limiting belief causes that?!?" But I remained centered, got curious and followed the rabbit down the hole... Was it his parents' money beliefs? ... Nope. Was it a money issue in his youth? ... Nope. Was it a way to avoid embarrassing his sister who earns less? ... Nope. Then it came to me. "Have you ever had a time when you were earning $50k a year?" Immediately he replied "Yes! Long ago, I was down on my luck. I had my son to support. And I was desperate! We lived in a dingy apartment. And the only job offer I got was for $50k a year." "It was way below my pay grade but I told myself 'Take it and be grateful!'" he ended, choking with tears in his eyes as the memory came back. ... And that was the key. Until now, his subconscious was saying "Take it and be grateful." The vibrations he was sending out was "Be happy with 50k." even when his conscious mind was shouting 1 million! (divided by 12). We manifest by asking and receiving. In asking, it is not the words that matter, but the feelings you send out. In this case, he still felt trapped in that dingy apartment telling himself that 50k is all he can expect. So we Released! the pain of this memory. After 10 minutes, I asked him to say it again "Take it and be grateful." and when he did, it was no longer emotionally charged. In fact he said "It's a lie!!!" ... Victory ✌️ Since then he has focused on doing more in person events, making greater impact than before. And I'm sure he is well on his way to his 1M goal. Reader, are you trapped in your past? Many things we tell ourselves when we are emotionally charged have great influence on our lives. Do you have a "truth" that you need to let go? Business Owners: What limitations do you believe your business has? I invite you to challenge them and see if they hold true. PS: If you're curious about how Release works. Don't hesitate to book a 30 min Inquiry call here and get a taste of what it's like. Till next time! ✌️ Michelle |
💚 Michelle Skalnik
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