I saw a lot of posts last week about the importance of awareness, and they bother me.

Many of those posts say something like, “Once you have awareness, you could work on them”. And that could be interpreted as trying harder, do something about it, change it.

I don’t have a problem with awareness. That’s definitely the first step.

But I’ve worked with many clients who are stuck and unable to get out by themselves. Many, like me, have worked with therapists and still unable to break free. And I hear them say

It makes them feel worse!

Because with many, it’s not a conscious “do something” problem. It’s a subconscious block that is in the way.

Here’s what I mean:

• One client needed to set up a website. But every time she sits to plan it out, she feels this strong urge to push it away.
• Another is aware that she hesitates and change directions a lot when talking to others. But she can’t help constantly reacting to her audience.
• Another knows that she has to go out there and meet people. But it’s more comfortable to enjoy her own company than face another rejection.

With all of them, it was an unconscious block that held them back. They were very aware of what’s wrong. But “trying harder” hasn’t gotten any results.

That’s why I deal with the block energetically through Release! and we resolve the issue in one session. We test the resistance afterwards and the change continues to get deeper in the days to come.

It's that easy. It doesn't have to be hard to deal with. Nor does it have to take a long time.

It’s the same when you’re building a business: You need to reach out, to become more visible, to talk about yourself and your services more, to charge more, to invite your ideal clients to work with you.

But you feel awkward instead of excited. You feel like an impostor instead of empowered. You lean back instead of leaning in. Or worse, you freeze.

You put out posts and no one reacts. You talk to prospects and they don't call back. You're not attracting the clients you want.

Do you see why it’s not a “do something" problem anymore, it’s energetic.

It’s the uncomfortable feelings that bubble up when you even think of what you need to do. It’s the patterns of self sabotage that comes up when you’re close to succeeding. It’s the voices in your head feeding your self-doubt.

Are you tired of trying? Don’t give up. Maybe it’s not about trying more but about letting go of these blocks.

I'm here to support you.

👍 Michelle

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